tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966755135573639122.post1783771235856961896..comments2023-12-14T01:15:33.178-08:00Comments on Ashley's Tiny Crumbs: The Great and Terrible Story of The Boy, Part 9 (Final Interlude)Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11233277669279344647noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966755135573639122.post-7484028910726751432012-09-02T07:42:24.004-07:002012-09-02T07:42:24.004-07:00Since I just barely read this whole thing--I saw a...Since I just barely read this whole thing--I saw a lot of the same issues I had with my now boyfriend. I met him at age 20--a "bad boy" nonmormon. I rejected his offer of marriage for a temple marriage. He was my "go to" fantasy for about 30 years. He then got a divorce. I had a friend call him. He was just divorcing--his wife moved out 2 weeks after he called me and he was a cl2https://www.blogger.com/profile/05268984459727220227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966755135573639122.post-69581015814855578332012-08-28T20:51:51.145-07:002012-08-28T20:51:51.145-07:00Agreed.
With Mrs. Vohs, BTW.Agreed.<br /><br />With Mrs. Vohs, BTW.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07545641373657104052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966755135573639122.post-62255681546352300032012-08-27T05:48:09.357-07:002012-08-27T05:48:09.357-07:00Yo. Yoyoyoyoyo.
Let me assure you, this never rep...Yo. Yoyoyoyoyo.<br /><br />Let me assure you, this never repeated itself, NOR WOULD IT. Do not project yourself onto Ash's children who do not see a 'parade' of other people in and out of their mothers life. I'm sorry that happened to you, I really am, but, no--don't project that.<br /><br />Secondly. Sign your name. It gives your words weight if you own them. Otherwise, Mrs. Vohsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966755135573639122.post-90121716548442626402012-08-26T23:10:41.437-07:002012-08-26T23:10:41.437-07:00It is a big jump from Ashley's story to yours....It is a big jump from Ashley's story to yours. She did not introduce her children to this man. Most any single mom will be in tears from time to time. This whole blog is about the incredibly tough and unlikely situation she is in. It's not a Disney fairy tale. Kids leave letters like this even when Parents are generally happy. Because they care. Which does not mean they are changing roles.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966755135573639122.post-27655496436486123412012-08-26T18:43:19.246-07:002012-08-26T18:43:19.246-07:00Thank you so much for telling this story, the whol...Thank you so much for telling this story, the whole long mess of it. I completely relate to the phenomenon of a fantasy turning into a less-than-perfect reality. I had a crush very much like yours on a boy in 8th grade who I eventually dated (after dating others for many years) in my 20's. It ended badly and messily after 4 years despite the fact that I'd wanted to marry him since I was Stephanienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966755135573639122.post-21836139201063430552012-08-26T13:04:06.212-07:002012-08-26T13:04:06.212-07:00Good heavens. I sincerely hope that your behavior ...Good heavens. I sincerely hope that your behavior never repeats itself again and that whatever relationship you're in works out splendidly. Anyone who is flakey, depressed, and broke should not have any access to your children ever. End of story. And yes I can say that, being a the child of a single mom who married three times beyond my father and spent my childhood bringing man after man Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com